By David King

Saturday, December 12, 2009

For The Men

It is hard for men in these times to meet women especially if you are a Christian man. You might be good looking, have an amazing job with amazing pay and all the comforts of home and still be sitting there a lone. Or you might be an average looking man with a job that displeases you with little income. Whatever your situation, I have found a website and a 100 page manual that can show you step by step how to find the woman of your dreams.

David King spent hours and a lot of money investing in finding the woman of his dreams and in his frustration, he wrote a manual that not only builds confidence but helps men and the relationshps they have with others. It talks about how to talk to women, but not just any woman but the woman you desire.

David's manual puts you and God's relationship on track in a personal, specfic way that is unique to your situation. He helps you build a magnetic that will have women running to you, where you can choose the one that's the best match for you. He helps you build confidence where you are able to interact with any woman, regardless of how intimidatingly beautiful she is. He puts prayer first to gain access to the spiritual power available to Christians. And the most important of all is your relationship with the Lord that determines the success of your relationship with the women you are meeting and maybe even your future wife.

If you have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile, uploaded a a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don't have any potential at all? If you can master how to effectively screen applicants, this will be most important online relationship help that you've ever received.

You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like "Gold Digger" or "Daddy's girl"....but they don't so it's up to you to find these things out and you can't just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, "What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?" Listen carefully to her answers. She's going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.

Next you should ask her, "What do you really think about online dating?" Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same mistakes.

Now for the all-important one....."What caused the break up in your last relationship?" If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn't right for either of them, you've heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.

Also, if you are dating online, David has tips and tricks that help you ask the right questions and how to respond to the answers to those questions.

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. So, remember, easy does it. You have to build up to things, but here is some online relationship advice that will jump start the growth of your relationship:

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other's time with respect. If it's lacking, this might mean it's time to move on.

2. Communication needs to "feel" right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don't rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don't share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online - send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you're exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send printed greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

The best online relationship advice that you can get for this area is: tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

Remember, you don't have to look any further. David's manual is a must buy if you are serious about finding the woman of your dreams. Remember he spent countless hours taking notes and talking to other Christian men who are just like you. Many men have purchased this manual and read through it and wrote testimonials of how they found that perfect woman by using David's step by step manual. Try it out and if you don't like what it says, return it for a full refund. What have you got to lose. It's better then sitting there doing nothing. Try it out and see what happens. Maybe God has something in store for you, better than you ever imagined.

If you have found this blog interesting and want more online relationship help visit David's website at Copy and paste this link in your URL box or click on the picture above. Thank you and God's blessings on your ventures of finding the woman of your dreams.